15 Qualities of Successful Leaders

In this post we will highlight the qualities of successful leaders. As I’ve commented previously in The 7 Attributes of Leadership, when I have to evaluate someone for hiring, I always try to identify leadership qualities, because people with such traits perform and coordinate a lot better than simple people. In short, what I look for is people with potential, people who is hungry for more, people able to grow and evolve. And these people can be identified because they have the traits or characteristics of leaders. Besides, as time goes by, these traits will also strengthen the leader’s role in the company. Therefore, we have to know that a successful leader is…

1) A hard worker: Leaders must show a strong commitment to work, they should lead by example, work hard (and harder and hardest), and verify that their groups stay focused on the proper tasks and are always moving towards the business’ goals. Leading by example is especially important: leaders can’t request further commitment from their groups unless they lead by example. However, leading by example doesn’t mean that leaders should end up micromanaging and usurping their teams’ tasks. Working hard is the best way to lead by example, but everyone in the organization must work on their level, according to their responsibilities. And you, as a leader, must distribute tasks in a proper fashion. On the other hand, a leader should be able to live a balanced life, to reconcile his professional career with other roles (familiar, social, etc.) Successful leaders must demonstrate to their employees that it is perfectly possible to harmonize a very dedicated professional attitude with a rich private life. The excitement, the energy, the illusion that requires a successful leadership stems only from a rich, entertaining and varied personal lifestyle. In summary, a successful leader is a person who knows how to enjoy life’s pleasures.

Leadership qualities

2) Persevering: True leaders set realistic goals. A realistic goal is accessible and can be achieved in a reasonable time span. Leaders should avoid dispersing their energy: they should focus all of their energy on two or three well-defined and realistic goals. Successful leaders know that higher goals might be difficult to achieve in a short time span, and therefore, they lead their team to advance little by little, step by step, towards the great goal. True leaders know that success stems from sustained effort. Obstacles faced by organizations are numerous: only perseverance will allow to succeed in the long run. Therefore, leaders must also promote resilience within the organization. Resilience and perseverance are intertwined: the idea is to keep going further, no matter the adversities (sometimes, of course, we have to alter our approaches, but the idea is to never give up and go little by little, conquering small goals in each step.)

Success will never be a big step in the future; success is a small step taken just now (Jonatan Mårtensson.)

3) Flexible: Energy flows continually, systems fight against entropy, everything changes. Today’s facts may turn useless tomorrow. Leaders have to be aware of the dynamics of energy and systems around them. Flexibility means adaptation, and adaptation, in turn, means intelligence. Furthermore, employees have their own criteria and sometimes their criteria might be more accurate than the leader’s. Those leaders who are always entrenched in their opinions are doomed to fail, and convey an aura of arrogance that will lose them the sympathy of their groups. Real leaders are not afraid to change their point of view or accept the opinion of a subordinate: that’s no sign of weakness. On the contrary, it would project an image of an open person… flexible leaders will increase their prestige among employees. In this case, though, balance is also a key issue. Being flexible does not mean you will always change your point of view to match your subordinates’ opinion. Being flexible means to listen. Successful leaders listen to everybody, then make a decision. Summarizing, flexibility amounts to sensing your environment (listening, observing, reading), followed by a proper adaptation.

4) Self-controlled: Leaders are the referents of an organization, and as such they should be able to control their emotions, especially in difficult times. Successful leaders must appeal to their resilience, in order to endure and overcome negative events (if leaders fall, the entire organization will likely collapse.) The leader has to be strong, capable of displaying and conveying serenity and tranquility in the hardest times. Remember that leaders largely determine the mood of an organization, and if the leader is optimistic, lively, and energetic, the organization will be in the mood to overcome adversities. If, however, the leader is pessimistic or depressed (and he shows his gloomy mood), the organization will sink. Successful leaders learn (through experience) how to “bounce back” and cope with stress and adversity. This is a skill which should be honed from early stages, and valued as gold.

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The Path of Self-Esteem

Believing in oneself, in our capabilities, loving ourselves, that’s self-esteem. It does not depend on what other people think about us; it only depends on how (and what) we think about ourselves. People who suffer from low self-esteem (and low self-esteem is a real illness, a disease) are constantly seeking for approval of other people, there in the outside world. Of course everyone wants to be approved, loved and even admired by those around us. But we have to start by loving ourselves, and respecting each other internally.

Path of Self-Esteem

Be strong. If we always try to impress by pretending what we are not, if we desperately seek applause or consent, if we need approbation of others, all the time, because otherwise we get depressed and let ourselves down, is because we lack sufficient self-esteem. We must not use appearances to hide our weakness and our lack of faith. It is as if beneath the tinsel we secretly know that our underwear is old, dirty and worn. That will also be perceived by our peers, and an x-ray machine is not needed to find it out. The feeling of worthlessness is transmitted. Because if you do not love yourself, no one will love you, and if you think you are worthless, other people will think it too.

Low self-esteem is a new concept in psychology, and its use has become commonplace, everyday, is the talk of the world. It might lead to real painful, dramatic suffering. An internal emptiness produces low self-esteem, inner loneliness, feeling nothing. To compensate for this deficiency some people try to link up with people they consider important and cool. Others flaunt their economic power, or knowledge, or of the trips they’ve made, or their acquired properties. No matter the mask, low self-esteem cannot be hidden. Think about all that people who seemingly had it all and ended painfully… they lacked the main thing: self-esteem, and they’ll need to follow the path of self-esteem.

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A Simple Guide to Completing Your Academic Degree

Achieving an academic degree is a significant milestone that opens doors to a world of opportunities and personal growth. The journey towards completing a degree is filled with challenges, triumphs, and valuable lessons that shape your academic and professional future. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore the importance of attaining a university degree, strategies to overcome challenges, staying motivated, learning to learn effectively, writing a thesis or pursuing an internship, prioritizing relaxation and well-being, and embracing the transformative experience of university studies.

A Simple Guide to Completing Your Academic Degree

Importance of Achieving an Academic Degree
Earning an academic degree is a transformative experience that equips you with knowledge, skills, and credentials essential for career advancement and personal development. A degree not only enhances your job prospects and earning potential but also fosters critical thinking, problem-solving abilities, and lifelong learning habits. By completing a university degree, you demonstrate dedication, perseverance, and a commitment to excellence, setting a solid foundation for future success in your chosen field.

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Acquiring the Habits of Highly Successful Students

Acquiring the habits of highly successful students… that’s a truly important topic! We humans are innate learners, as learning is the cornerstone for survival. We must remember, abstract and apply knowledge in diverse (and often harsh) environments in order to develop into and behave as truly intelligent beings. In short, the adaptability and resilience we exhibit stems from learning. Now, a key issue to learning is the driving force behind it, i.e., the motivation or stimuli to learn. We can learn because of fear (we want to learn how to protect ourselves from danger.) We can learn just out of curiosity (our natural inquisitive behavior.) We can learn because we want to reach some social status (approval of others is a potent stimuli to learn.) We can learn simply because we love to learn new things everyday. There are plenty of reasons to learn and yours may easily be a mixture of these. Health and money are important things in life, but learning is the base for using them wisely 🙂 If we are to succeed in life, we must hone our learning skills.

habits of highly successful students
Working in groups is also important

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